I Like Czech Girls, too / Debunking the “Creepy Guy” Myth

I like lovely Czech girls, too. I love to talk to them on ICQ. They are so much nicer than nasty American and Western women.

The Czech girls that I have met through ICQ, unlike American girls, have a very light-hearted bubbly attitude when talking with you. One of the reasons that they have this attitude is because they have not been spoiled by the hysterical “watch out for creepy guys” feminist-inspired paranoia that has infected the West.

Recently, there was a Canadian college student on Facebook (a social networking site similiar to Myspace and Bebo) who made a Facebook group called “What Makes Some Guys Creepy?”. Basically, the entire group is an attempt to validate the feminist-inspired theory of “creepy guy behavior”, which is essentially a lighter offshoot of radical feminist Marilyn French’s “All men are rapists” screed.

According to “What Makes Some Guys Creepy?”, here are some of the reasons that a man can be considered “creepy”:

[From the group message board:] DESPERATION: First, I don’t really like lables. I don’t think any guy is creepy deep, deep down – but some guys act like that more than others. And I think part of what drives it is an inner emptiness and desperation. There’s an addictive element where guys are trying to get the next ‘fix’ in the form of women. And so their focus narrows down into a laserbeam focus on ‘how can i get laid?’ or ‘how can I get this girl to date me?’ or whatever. But they’re so focused on making the goal happen that they cease to notice the impact they’re having on those around them. It’s very much like the addict who will steal from family and friends to get their next fix. All of their sketchy behaviour becomes justified. They become blinded by their own hunger and desperation.

My Response: Even some of the really tough guys that have written stuff over on GL’s blog and other places have admitted that they have been left with an inner emptiness and despair after spending their whole lives surrounded by American/Western women. Here the author of this Facebook group is trying to set up a Catch-22. If any of these guys ever try to fill in some of the inner emptiness that they have been left with through setting a goal to date or talk to a good, nice girl, he will simply accuse them of having a “desperate laserbeam focus” on that goal, and thus being “in the wrong” for doing so. But I refuse to listen to this propaganda. Instead, I am going to talk to, and eventually date, nice Russian/Eastern European girls like the nice Czech girls who don’t label people.

[From the group message board:] TOO MUCH, TOO SOON: This is along the same lines as unwarranted and unwanted attention. This can take the form of guys being too touchy too early – or suddenly touchy out of the blue. It can be the guy calling a girl every day after knowing her for 3 minutes. It can be telling her about all of his troubles and insecurities within moments of meeting her. Or asking for the number too soon.

My Response: The morning after the night I talked to the first Czech girl I met on ICQ I turned on the computer and immediately heard the “ICQ sound” and saw her talking to me. Although it was pretty evident that she was waiting there for me to wake up, I didn’t mind it at all, and we have been talking every day ever since. And both of us talk about troubles and insecurities with one another too, yes, even within moments of meeting one another. Maybe American women (and American men) would find that creepy. I don’t know. But now that I have Eastern European and Russian girls to talk to, I’m certainly not bound by it anymore. The purpose of this “too much too soon” restriction is to keep people on a superficial level with one another, and to keep them from bonding on a deeper level. However, I am willing to call the bluff, and I am willing to call a spade a spade, so this doesn’t work on me.

[From the group message board:] UNWANTED OR UNRECIPROCATED INTENSITY: I think those three words say a lot about creepiness. This could come in the form of starting at people too much, or ‘falling in love’ after one date, or being antisocial to everyone except the ‘hot chicks’ or telling a woman, “You’re so amazing” when you don’t know anything about her. It seems unwarranted. It makes no sense. There’s no logical reason for him to say such flattering things unless he’s desperate and lonely. And that’s hardly attractive. So she assumes (correctly) that he has a covert agenda.

My Response: I think the guy running this Facebook group is the one with the covert agenda. People on GL’s board tell the Russian girls “you’re so amazing” all the time, even without “knowing anything about them” (whatever that’s supposed to mean). And the Russian girls love it, and don’t see any problem with it. The only people who ever see a problem with is are feminists, American/Western women, and people like this Facebook guy. And as for “starting[sic] at people too much”, I think that this whole “creepy staring guy” stuff comes from the fact that a lot of Western women think that they are goddesses, and that “lowly guys” don’t even deserve to look at them. I have heard from just about everyone that has been to Russia that I have talked to that it is not considered “creepy” in Russia to openly look a woman up and down. I have even heard from some men that Russian women love to be looked at like this.

(On another note, this Facebook guy also thinks that there is a continuum that goes “creepy–really creepy–stalker–rapist”. This line gives this Facebook group even more of a feminist flair.)

I’m telling you right now that there is nothing sacred about this “creepy guy theory”. It is feminist-manufactured bullshit.

If you are a decent guy, and you are sick of selfish, paranoid Western women and all the male sellouts who defend them and their absurd behavior (like this facebook guy), and want to talk to a good Eastern European or Russian woman who will be very sweet and won’t stick bullshit labels on you, please drop by ICQ’s website and go to the Eastern European Chatroom.

Or if you want, I could even give you some contacts of some Eastern European / Russian women to talk to. I promise you that you won’t be disappointed.

Endnote: I have to go now for the rest of the weekend until late on Saturday, so I wasn’t really able to finish this article. I will finish it when I come back.